REALITIES OF BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP...

Don't give everything away. Leave some
things a mystery. Guys love conquest.
If you already give your all, wala ng
something to look forward to sa
relationship nyo. And the guy will
become kampante. Assure him of your
love
and faithfulness, but warn him
too: "umayos ka diyan! You can lose me
anytime...".

The guy who loves his mom will be a
good boyfriend. Why? Because if he has
high respect for his mother, he will have
high respect for women. (ehem...)
BIG PAGKAKAIBA: What a girl needs
most is love. What a guy needs most is
respect. The most important thing for a
girl is her heart. For a guy its his
ego.
Give your man his own time and space.
Let him have his time for his friends,
sports, family, self, and God. The
relationship will grow old quickly if
lagi kayong magkasama. Give him time
to miss you and you'll see how he will
love you more. If the guy naman is
obsessed and just wants to be with you
all the time, tell him you cant respect
a "puppy" for long.
Do things differently anytime. Para kahit
matagal na kayo, there is always
something fresh and new. Variety is the
spice of life. Exciting baga?
"Making love" is better than just "having
sex". And true love "waits". Save
your precious "gift" on your wedding
night. Di nagiging tama ang mali, just
because uso naman and everyone's
doing it. Be iba.
Discover something you both like to do
and enjoy it TWOgether.Doon naman sa
mga bagay na magkaiba ang hilig nyo,
compliment each other by learning about
it kahit konti. If you love someone, yung
effort nyo to try will go a
looooong way to understanding him later
pag may disagreement kayo.
Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny
noh? Maybe, but its very powerful. Pag
may takot sa Diyos ang boyfriend,mo,
kampante ka na di ka nya lolokohin,
because he knows God sees everything
he does in secret. Ikaw na ang magkusa
that before you part after date, with hold
hands and eyes closed, pray to
God to bless you two. Believe me it's
effective.
Kailanman, di corny ang magdasal.

Never think "mababago ko sya pag kami
na...". Only God can change a person,
and only if that person wants to. Even
God cannot steer parked cars.
Believe in "Magic". Kahit di minsan
practical o walang logical na dahilan, o
matrabaho, o sounds crazy sa iba, do
sweet little things for the one you
love kahit magmukha ka ng timang. The
memories will be fun to recall later
in life. The corniest song o gift o letter
(aminin mo) ang laging kabog!
True love brings out the best in each
other. Find something good in your
boyfriend and nurture it, encourage it
and syempre, ENJOY it.
It's healthy to fight. Doon nyo lang
maaayos ang mga differences nyo at
natetest ang tatag ng relationship. Doon
mo rin sya makikilala ng mabuti.
Its called test of fire. Di mahalaga how
dalas you fight. What matters is
how often you make bati. Mas
nakakatakot yung relasyong sobrang
perfect at
laging masaya. One big fight and that's
it! And diba mas kilig yung
malambing na... "uy, bati na tayo...".
But don't overdo it. Kakapagod naman
din na lagi na lang manuyo o magsori.
Choose the battles na papatulan mo.
The little issues, palampasin na. Don't
sweat the small stuff.
Daraan sa iba't-ibang stages ang love
especially pag matagal na kayo. Grow
with it. Don't expect him to be like nung
una. 'Coz like a student, di na
ituturo sa grade 6 yung lessons na pang-
grade 2. Change WILL happen... you
both will change and your love WILL
change too. It's up to you na lang if
the change will be for the better or for the
worse. Life is about growth.
Grow with it.