"If GOD answers your prayer, He is increasing your faith. If he delays, he is increasing your patience. If he doesnt answer, he has something better for you."


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btw.. cool site ---> http://www.unfaithfulpeople.com/
bagay sa mga taong nag-checheat at nag-cheat na!!! ma-karma sana kayo!





As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others' hearts.
You'll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in love with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by.
So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and love like you've never been hurt.
Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. you just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what
they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand,
comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts.
Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back.

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.
I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.
I've learned that you can get by on charm for about 15 minutes. After that, you'd better know something.
I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do.
I've learned that it's not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it.
I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.
I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
I've learned that it's a lot easier to react than it is to think.
I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words, it may be the last time you'll see them.
I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't.
I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice.
I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.
I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
I've learned that my boyfriend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.
I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.
I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I've learned that you should never tell a friend her/his dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if she/he believed it.
I've learned that your family won't always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological.
I've learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
I've learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions.
I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
I've learned that if you don't want to forget something, stick it in your underwear drawer.
I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
I've learned that the clothes I like best are the ones with the most holes in them.
I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
I've learned that there are many ways of falling and staying in love.
I've learned that no matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves, get farther in life.
I've learned that many things can be powered by the mind, the trick is self-control.
I've learned that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar, you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most.
I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.
I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when someone you love cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.
I've learned that writing, as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.
I've learned that the paradigm we live in is not all that is offered to us.
I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.
I've learned that although the word "love" can have many different meaning, it loses value when overly used.
I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe.





In whatever relationship, whether with a great BEING, relatives, friends or "significant others", remember, "we don't just make a relationship LAST; we make it WORK". The importamce of communication, making and spending time with them come into the picture. Amidst the hectic and hassle scheds each of us may have, it just takes a few minutes of our time to at least communicate with our loved-ones and make them feel that they are remembered and are held important in our day-to-day battles. It gives a feeling of security that we don't just treat them as mere 'options' in our life, rather, treat them as 'priorities'. After all, they are the very reasons why we chose to live and face another great day.

If you don't anymore grow to be a better person with another person, then it's not worth it. If that someone distracts you, makes you lose control or focus with your priorities in life, BE CAREFUL! It's UNHEALTHY! A little sensitivity is a necessity. Never ever try to be someone else that you're not. Although insecurities linger once in a while, remind yourself that there is ONE great person who thinks you are SPECIAL and LOVABLE. If others can't accept that something SPECIAL and UNIQUE in you, it's not anymore your problem. Don't lament for unmet expectations of other people on you. They know less of you - they dont just know you.

The greatest gift you can give yourself, is to give back what you already have through an unselfish service for others. It is by learning how to give that we fulfill and realize our worth as beings. This service for others does not expect anything in return. It is done with pure intentions as one seeks himself or herself through such endeavors. A friend of mine told me, "when you give and it hurts, that's when you truly give". Giving your time (which is very precious) for others is a big step on giving a part of yourself to other people. While some do the expected, normal student tasks, finding your way out of what's usual makes it more noble. It gives more light to the four corners of the classroom.


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very fun weekend!

Alvin brought me to this dolphin show yesterday!
Alvin invited me to watch tokyo drift a while ago!!

so fun weekend!!!

Fun but not complete... someone is missing... and i miss him..



mahal na mahal pa rin kita....
.... sana bumalik ka na..





When to let go?

> >Imagine this. In your hand is a very precious creation, so fragile, so
>valuable that if you keep on holding, it would either stay or fall apart.
>But you loved this creature so much, so much that letting it go would be
>like letting go of your life as well. So much that sometimes you wished it
>would be there forever. So much that you tend to be selfish at times so as
>you could make it stay for as long as you like.
> >Don't we all wish something "so good" could be forever? Don't we all hope
>that happiness is there to stay?

>There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone "so nice" and
>"almost perfect" and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted
>to that person (sometimes without even realizing it). This feeling soon
>become a part of our everyday lives and eventually guzzles our thoughts and
>actions to the extent that we tagged it as one of those "too good to be
>true" thing.

> >The sad part there is when we begin to realize that, this particular person
>feels totally nothing but friendship. A "thing" that would be forever a
>"thing" nothing more, nothing less...just a thing! You're just a friend,
>and
>that's the fact! Then in our desperate attempt to get closer (or at least
>be
>noticed), our efforts are still futile and we end up sorry for ourselves.

> >One person said, never ever let your heart run your life, as much as you
>can, always be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Try to listen
>not merely on what your feelings is invoking on you as a person but more
>importantly listen to reason as well.

> >Letting go of someone doesn't necessarily mean you have to stop loving, it
>only means that you allow that person to find his own happiness without
>expecting him to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person
>free (in the real sense of it), but it is also setting yourself free from
>all animosity, revulsion, and resentment that was long kept in your heart.
>You have to let go because the bitterness often puts away the strengths and
>weakens the littlest hope, making our lives more miserable than ever.
>Worst,
>presenting yourself as the "most affected one" sets the nastiest impression
>of all time--whatta a loser!

> >The trick there is...always remember that if you lose someone today, it
>means that someone better is coming tomorrow.

> >If you lose love that doesn't mean that you failed in love...right? Just
>regard it as another mismatch of heaven! Well, you can cry of course, or
>whine or shout (growl even) if you have to, but make sure that after those
>outbursts you have washed away the hurt and the bitterness that the past
>has
>left with you (easy said than done I know!).

> >We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace
>and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today. You
>really don't have to forget someone you love ('cause it's hard). What we
>need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter
>or sorry for what we have become. I think it's better that we give off that
>dedication and love to someone more deserving. Hmmm..."Who could it be" is
>the next interesting question to ponder.
> >Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it
>does, pray hard that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.

> > > > "I have learned that success is to be measured not so much by the
>position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has had
>to overcome while trying to succeed."





"Being Selfless"

To be truly free
we have to be responsible
ever conscious of our duties.

To remain ever faithful
we squeeze out the selfishness
that insists only on our rights.

To genuinely serve
we put on the selflessness
that puts all our interest in God and country.


Absence makes the heart grow fonder
I believe that statement
I'm missing you so much
My heart is calling out for you
My stomach jumped when the phone rang
Hearing the sweetness of your voice
Like music to my yearning ears
You had to go so quickly
With sorrowful goodbyes
Came a broken heart on the other end
Being miles apart from you
Is like salt dripping on an open wound
I never thought I could love someone so much
Or that someone could love me like you do
Your lips are so soft and sweet
I can only imagine how sweet
They will be when you return
My one and only, I love and miss you
My heart seems to grow fonder of you
With every second of your absence.

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Stay - Carol Banawa
I want you
to stay
Never go away
Stay forever
But now, now that you're gone
All I can
do is pray for you
To be here beside me again
Why did you have to leave me
When you said that love will conquer all
Why did you have to leave me
When you said that dreaming
was as good as reality
And now I must move on
Tryin to forget all the
memories of you near me
But I can't let
go of your love that has stopped me
To hold on





Yehey! Wala na kami.

Yehey! Wala na kami. Wala na akong aalalahanin, wala na akong iisipin...

Pero hirap akong matulog sa gabi dahil bumabalik yung mga alaala noong magkasama kami. Naiisip ko kung paano niya hawakan yung kamay ko, yung tipong nagsasabing hindi niya ako iiwanan. Kung pa’no niya ko yakapin, yung nagsasabing lagi niya akong poprotektahan. At kung pa’no niya ako halikan, yung nagsasabing mahal na mahal nya ako.

Yehey! Wala na kami. Hindi na ako iiyak pa...

Pero kapag gabi nagagawa ko pa ring umiyak, dahil nami-miss ko siya. Nami-miss ko yung mga ngiti niyang nakakaloko, mga jokes niyang corny, mga tingin niyang nakakatunaw, tawa niyang nakakabaliw, pangungulit niya sa akin at kung anu-ano pang kapraningan na ginagawa niya. Nami-miss ko yun...

Yehey! Wala na kami. Wala na akong tatawagan, hindi na ako magte-text sa kanya, at makakaipon na ako ng pera para sa sarili ko.

Pero sa tuwing hawak ko ang cell phone ko, lagi kong hinahanap ang pangalan niya. Lagi akong nate-tempt na magtext sa kanya, o di naman kaya, tumawag. Nangangati lagi ang darili ko na pindutin ang “Write Message” i-type ang message ko, i-scroll yung button para makita ko yung number niya, at tapos ipe-press ko yung “Send”. O kaya naman, i-scroll ko yung button para mahanap yung name niya tapos ipe-press ko yung “Call”. Kahit na alam ko na mauubos na ang load ko at wala na akong pambili ng credit (dahil kabibigay lang ng nanay ko). Kahit na alam kong hindi naman sya magre-reply at hinding-hindi nya ako tatawagan. At kahit kailan hindi na nya gagawin pang magparamdam.

Yehey! Wala na kami. Magkakaroon na ako ng time para sa sarili ko, sa pamilya ko at sa barkada ko.

Pero sa tuwing lalabas ako ng bahay, kasama man ang pamilya o barkada ko, siya lagi ang naaalala ko, na sana, kasama ko siya ngayon. Magkahawak kamay na namamasyal, naglolokohan, nagkukulitan, at nagtatawanan. Tapos, walang katapusang usapan kung saan kakain ng lunch, kung sa Jollibee, McDo, KFC, o sa Max’s. Kung pupunta ba sa isang game arcade para maglaro ng video games o di kaya naman, kung maglalaro ng basketball, bowling or billiards. Tapos, i-hahatid niya ako papauwi sabay nanakawan ng halik habang nasa biyahe.

Yehey! Wala na kami. Hindi na ako magpupuyat sa kakatutok sa computer, aabutin ng madaling-araw kaka-chat sa kanya.

Pero sa tuwing may ise-search ako sa Internet, bubuksan ko ang Yahoo Messenger, MSN Messenger, ICQ, at MIRC dahil baka sakaling dumating siya. Makausap ko man lang, makikipagkulitan uli at baka sakaling magkaliwanagan kami at maibalik ang dating “kami”.

Yehey! Wala na kami. Wala na akong girlfriend, pwede na akong tumingin sa iba at tumanggap ng manliligaw.

Pero sabi ko sa sarili ko, hindi na ako magmamahal pa uli. Dahil siya lang ang mahal ko. Siya lang ang nakaka-kumpleto sa araw ko, siya lang yung inspirasyon ko sa mga bagay-bagay. Siya lang yung nakakaintindi sa akin kapag may problema ako. Siya lang yung nakakapagpatahan sa akin kapag umiiyak ako. Siya lang ang buhay ko, siya lang, wala ng iba.

Magmamahal din ako, pero hindi muna ngayon, hindi muna...





Hanggang - Wency Cornejo

Ilang ulit mo bang, itinatanong sakin
kung hanggang saan,hanggang saan, hanggang kailan,
hanggang kailan mag tatagal,
ang aking pag mamahal,

hanggang may himig pa akong naririnig,
dito sa aking daig-dig
hanggang may musika akong tinataglay,
ika'y iniibig
giliw wag mo sanang isiping
ikaw ay aking lilisanin,
di ko magagawang
lumayo sayong piling
at nais kong malaman mo
kung gaano kita kamahal

hanggang ang diwa ko'y
tanging sayo laan
mamahalin kailanman
hanggang pag ibig ko'y
hanggang walang hanggan
tanging ikaw lamang

hanggang may himig pa akong naririnig
dito sa aking daig-dig
hanggang may musika akong tinataglay
ika'y iniibig
giliw wag mo sanang isiping
ikaw ay aking lilisanin
di ko magagawang
lumayo sayong piling
at nais kong malaman mo
kung gaano kita kamahal

hanggang may puso akong
marunong mag mahal
na ang sinisigaw ay lagi ng ikaw
hanggang saan hanggang kailan
hanggang kailan kita mahal
hanggang ang buhay ko'y
kunin ng may kapal

giliw wag mo sanang isipin
ikaw ay aking lilisanin
di ko magagawang
lumayo sayong piling
hanggang may pag ibig
laging isisigaw, tanging ikaw
hanggang may pag ibig
laging isisigaw, tanging ikaw





REALITIES OF BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP...

Don't give everything away. Leave some
things a mystery. Guys love conquest.
If you already give your all, wala ng
something to look forward to sa
relationship nyo. And the guy will
become kampante. Assure him of your
love
and faithfulness, but warn him
too: "umayos ka diyan! You can lose me
anytime...".

The guy who loves his mom will be a
good boyfriend. Why? Because if he has
high respect for his mother, he will have
high respect for women. (ehem...)
BIG PAGKAKAIBA: What a girl needs
most is love. What a guy needs most is
respect. The most important thing for a
girl is her heart. For a guy its his
ego.
Give your man his own time and space.
Let him have his time for his friends,
sports, family, self, and God. The
relationship will grow old quickly if
lagi kayong magkasama. Give him time
to miss you and you'll see how he will
love you more. If the guy naman is
obsessed and just wants to be with you
all the time, tell him you cant respect
a "puppy" for long.
Do things differently anytime. Para kahit
matagal na kayo, there is always
something fresh and new. Variety is the
spice of life. Exciting baga?
"Making love" is better than just "having
sex". And true love "waits". Save
your precious "gift" on your wedding
night. Di nagiging tama ang mali, just
because uso naman and everyone's
doing it. Be iba.
Discover something you both like to do
and enjoy it TWOgether.Doon naman sa
mga bagay na magkaiba ang hilig nyo,
compliment each other by learning about
it kahit konti. If you love someone, yung
effort nyo to try will go a
looooong way to understanding him later
pag may disagreement kayo.
Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny
noh? Maybe, but its very powerful. Pag
may takot sa Diyos ang boyfriend,mo,
kampante ka na di ka nya lolokohin,
because he knows God sees everything
he does in secret. Ikaw na ang magkusa
that before you part after date, with hold
hands and eyes closed, pray to
God to bless you two. Believe me it's
effective.
Kailanman, di corny ang magdasal.

Never think "mababago ko sya pag kami
na...". Only God can change a person,
and only if that person wants to. Even
God cannot steer parked cars.
Believe in "Magic". Kahit di minsan
practical o walang logical na dahilan, o
matrabaho, o sounds crazy sa iba, do
sweet little things for the one you
love kahit magmukha ka ng timang. The
memories will be fun to recall later
in life. The corniest song o gift o letter
(aminin mo) ang laging kabog!
True love brings out the best in each
other. Find something good in your
boyfriend and nurture it, encourage it
and syempre, ENJOY it.
It's healthy to fight. Doon nyo lang
maaayos ang mga differences nyo at
natetest ang tatag ng relationship. Doon
mo rin sya makikilala ng mabuti.
Its called test of fire. Di mahalaga how
dalas you fight. What matters is
how often you make bati. Mas
nakakatakot yung relasyong sobrang
perfect at
laging masaya. One big fight and that's
it! And diba mas kilig yung
malambing na... "uy, bati na tayo...".
But don't overdo it. Kakapagod naman
din na lagi na lang manuyo o magsori.
Choose the battles na papatulan mo.
The little issues, palampasin na. Don't
sweat the small stuff.
Daraan sa iba't-ibang stages ang love
especially pag matagal na kayo. Grow
with it. Don't expect him to be like nung
una. 'Coz like a student, di na
ituturo sa grade 6 yung lessons na pang-
grade 2. Change WILL happen... you
both will change and your love WILL
change too. It's up to you na lang if
the change will be for the better or for the
worse. Life is about growth.
Grow with it.





"Don't Say Goodbye"

How can I go on
When I know I gave it all?
Have I given too much?

Something inside your heart
is pushing me aside
And it seems so un-you baby
But it's so hard on me

What is it I'm seeing in your eyes?
The story that I'm reading says goodbye

Tell me baby where did we go wrong?
How did we lose a love so strong?
What can I say to make things right?
Baby hold on, don't leave tonight
There's no reason why
this part of us should die
Don't say goodbye

Searching for answers
But they're all so hard to find
'Cause I'm still loving you, baby
Oh, are you still loving me?

Baby, don't you turn and close the door
Is it you don't love me anymore
Tell me baby where did we go wrong?

How did we lose a love so strong?
What can I say to make things right?
Baby hold on, don't leave tonight
There's no reason why this part of us should die
Don't say goodbye

Don't leave me now
All alone
Don't break me down'
Cause I'm not that strong
I need your love to carry on

Tell me baby where did we go wrong?
How did we lose a love so strong?
What can I say to make things right?
Baby hold on, don't leave tonight
There's no reason why this part of us should die
Don't say goodbye

Tell me baby where did we go wrong
did we lose a love so strong?
What can I say to make things right?
Baby hold on, don't leave tonight
There's no reason why this part of us should die
Don't say goodbye

There's no reason why this part of us should die
Don't say goodbye(Don't say goodbye)





bakit ko hinayaang maging ganito ang situwasyon? bakit ako nagpabaya? bakit ko inignore? bakit? bakit? bakit?


How to Nurture Your Long-Distance Relationship

Whether you’re leaving on a jet plane or your lover’s taking that midnight train to Georgia , there are lots of ways to bridge the distance. Staying connected, while miles apart, is easier than you think. Long distance romances can work; they just need a little extra effort and some planning. The most successful Long Distance Relationships have a plan to manage the distance. What many people don’t realize is there are many benefits to being in a long distance romance. When you understand how fortunate you are to have someone at the other end, willing to go the distance, you won’t waste another minute pining away for your lover. No one chooses to be in a long distance relationship, often times they choose you. I have yet to meet anyone who set out to purposely find someone living hundreds of miles away, but you might meet someone while on vacation of traveling for business. And when cupid’s arrow hits, there’s no turning around. So here are the facts: Ever since the times of the first wars, hunting expeditions and pilgrimages, circumstances have landed people in Long Distance Romances. In today’s fast-paced, increasingly mobilized world, people are increasingly finding themselves in long distance relationships. One in three American jobs involves some sort of travel. And according to recent census figures, about 2.4 million marriages actually involve one spouse living in another city. Let’s get you busy fueling the flames in your romance. If you think of the time apart from your lover as extended foreplay, the eventual connection can be pretty dynamic! People call it the "Honeymoon Effect," and it’s a way long distance relationships can keep the passion level high over time. So, while it may be simple to lament and bemoan the situation, the reality of long distance relationships is that they are actually beneficial. This is a surprise to most people, but there are advantages in LDRs (long-distance relationships) that many people in NDRs ( near-distance relationships) will never experience. Many long distance couples realized, often in hindsight, that after they were reunited with their lovers, the distance factor had actually brought with it considerable benefits. That’s why it’s even been proposed over the years that a period of separation be required for a marriage license. Living your lives apart doesn’t mean your life is missing anything. And it doesn’t mean that you live in your relationships in stops (time apart) and starts (time together). Just as lovers who are present can seem absent, those who are absent can be made to seem present. The first inherent benefit of a long distance relationship is that it allows you and your lover to appreciate one another and experience higher highs. If you spend time apart, you’ll naturally relish the time once you’re back together - especially if its only for a short time. A big advantage of a long distance relationship is that it forces you to have a life of your own. Why spend your time at home pining and wasting away? Your lover did not fall in love with a homebody. Use this time apart to enrich yourself, as well as your relationship. By actively pursuing your own interests and learning more about yourself, you will find yourself bringing more into the relationship, leading to a richer understanding of both yourself, and subsequently, your lover. When you’re not sitting around by the phone waiting to hear from your lover, you should get up and make things happen for yourself. Rather than keeping activities on hold pending on your lover’s interest and availability, you go out and do things for yourself. Have a full, satisfying life when you’re apart. Don’t just keep busy-really accomplish things that matter to you. Especially consider getting involved in activities r charities which your lover wouldn’t care to join in on anyway. If you’re a more complete person when solo, it can only improve your romance together. This can lead to greater individual success and happiness which can only make you a better catch for your lover. Here’s to heightening romance in your long distance relationship!

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very nice article... thanks to a fellow blogger!


monthsary namin ngayon, kahit sandali lang kami nagkausap.. nabati ko siya.. i know, i know.. sabi ko hindi ko siya babatiin... mukha ngang hindi niya naalala na monthsary namin eh... 54th...

oh well... titiisin ko kahit ano, mag-work out lang ang relationship na ito... sobrang nahihirapan na nga ako eh... akala ko madali lang... hindi pala... pero hindi ko pinapaalam sa kanya.. lalo lang kasing magiging complicated at.. pinanghihinaan na nga ng loob yung tao tapos dadagdagan ko pa.

... sana everything will be as good/sweet as it was before.. it feels so awkward na lambingin siya kahit ginagawa ko na...

"time will flow. everyone knows, when the pain fades away. dreams won't die, tears in our eyes.. you got to hold your head up high..."

happy monthsary sa iyo, kat. =)